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A heart-to-heart on dating and romance
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No. 73

Okay gagos, I'm in love with pic related.

What do I do?

No.74

>Are you handsome?
>Do you have a car?
>Do you have a house?

No.75

>>74
Not by most people's standards
No
Does a college dorm count?

No.76

>>75
Do you live there alone? +1 if so

No.77

How old are you? How old is she?

No.78

>>76
Yes.

>>77
I'm 19. She's 16.
I'm totally not a pedo, right?

No.79

Republic Act No. 8353 [The Anti-Rape Law of 1997] - PHILIPPINE LAWS, STATUTES AND CODES - CHAN ROBLES VIRTUAL LAW LIBRARY


>"l) When the victim is under eighteen (18) years of age and the offender is a parent, ascendant, step-parent, guardian, relative by consanguinity or affinity within the third civil degree, or the common-law spouse of the parent of the victim;

No.80

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No.81

>>79
What the fuck?

No.82

So mga gago what do you suggest?

No.83

>>82
Try to befriend her first then tell us what happens after that

No.84

>>83
Already did. I'm trying to talk with her as much as I can. I even went out and befriended her other friends to make things less awkward when I intrude.

I'm thinking about confessing to her- just so she knows. What do you guys think?

No.85

>>84

No not yet you'll ruin everything if you try to confess to her at once.

No.86

Okay.

After much thinking, I've decided I'll spend my time making her closer to me. When I feel she's comfortable around me, I'll confess and I'll go from there.

Thanks, gagos.

No.87

Update us on your progress Good Luck!

No.88

Just don't anythong shit on heryet wait 'till her 18 Birthday. Kung disenteng babae yan baka mabaril ka ng kamaganak nyan. Parang acceptable social acceptable naman kung girlfriend mo sya at 17.And kung LOVE talaga yan makapaghihintay ka…Just an unsolicited advice to you bro.

No.89

Day 1

Absolutely fucking nothing happened.
I'll start aggressive action by Thursday.

No.90

>>89
And what do you mean by aggressive?

No.91

Ikaw lang ba ang nanliligaw sa kanya?

No.93

Putas, aggressive action had been taken and the opponent has not faltered. Do I continue this offensive or do I confess and then continue

>>91
Seems like it.

No.94

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Play with fire, get burnt

No.95

I've been trying to befriend her for three months already. Very little progress had been made.

Do I give up? What do you putas suggest? (Walang rape)

No.96

>>95
For only 3 months? kek

It takes years bro

No.97

>>96
Just talking about befriending here.

No.98

How To Hug A Girl And Escape The Friend Zone

No.99

>>98
>Hug
>Get boner
>Reflexively switch to granny hug

No.100

>>99

Now all you have to do is practice. Repetition is the key. So get out there and mingle. Show the girl the CONFIDENT you. The more you interact, the more responses you will get. The more responses you get, the sooner your brain and nerves will relax and it will become second nature.

Pretty soon it will be like hugging a family member, no big deal, and the erections will soon subside.

No.101

>>100

Wtf did i just read?

No.102

I went out and confessed.

She told me "Magbabago rin yang nararamdaman mo."

Is this a challenge or a vague rejection?

She isn't outright ignoring me, by the way. She just doesn't mind me at all unless I talk first.

No.103

>>102
May iba pa ba siyang sinabi bukod dyan?

No.104

>>102
Maybe she's not looking for anything serious right now. Maybe she still wants to enjoy her singlehood.

No.107

>>103
Ako: "Straight to the point, Lis. Nagugustuhan kita."
Siya: "Yan lang? Akala ko galit ka sakin."
"Magbabago rin nararamdaman mo."

We haven't spoken since then. She's intentionally taken a different route home too.

>>104
She isn't.
A very important detail that I chose to ignore.

No.108

It's possible she doesn't feel the same towards you. Or maybe she likes you too but feels embarrassed or shy when she sees you now. Give her time.

No.109

>>108
I'm planning on staying quiet for at least a month. I'll talk to her, and if she's still uncomfortable, I'll give her more time.

I feel like I'm only grasping at straws here.

No.110

Look at post >>85

Told ya don't rush into things

Friendship is the best foundation of Love

No.111

>>110
Circumstances.

I fucked up big.
Sorry, all this advice went to waste.

No.112

>>111

It's not too late bro!

Well you can apologize to her for a start

No.113

>>112
I'm going to try and let things cool down. It's still very fresh. Even our friends are teasing us, which is making me regret this even more.

No.114

Try to avoid the situation first

It is normal for anyone to tease

No.117

Her friends (who I befriended as part of the grand plan) visited me at lunchtime with a goddamn guitar and sang Yeng's Siguro. Everyone was fucking listening.

Shit fucking hurts but it's good to know I still have people on my back- even if they're pretty annoying.

No.118

=(

No.120

http://www.wikihow.com/Reconcile-a-Friendship

I'm going to sort this out.
I don't want it to end like this.

No.121

what happened? any updates?

No.123

I heard from a friend she doesn't want to see me anymore.

We run into each other often but our eyes never meet. It's like she's conscious of where I am and does her best not to look. I call to her but she pretends she doesn't hear.

No.125


No.127

>>125
All those goddamn signs are a check.

It's over, boys.

No.128

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No.132

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It's been more than a week since we last spoke.
I want to reconcile with her. I've set a deadline for myself.

By 9 September, I have to clear all misunderstandings. I also plan to speak to her on that day. Personally. Chat might do but I don't feel like doing so. Success would mean Phase II.

By 23 September, Phase II. I have to repair this friendship. I'll do it through what we used to do before I felt anything for her: Talking about random shit.

By 30 September, the entire operation needs to be done.

Whether or not awkwardness will stay depends entirely on the results, but I don't intend to leave this one without another fight.

No.133

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I wish you happy endings in whatever you do

No.134

Don't screw it up again bro we wish you luck

No.136

kaya mo yan.. pag hindi talaga, let it go. may iba para sayo

No.137

She refuses to talk to me personally in the meantime.

I'm testing the waters through Facebook, and she responds to my messages albeit short and businesslike. I still haven't risked extending our conversations with further small talk.

No.138

I'm not too sure about the 9th September deadline either.

I'm still trying to gain some intel from her friends.
They're very nosy and tease us both but they're supportive of me.

No.139

>>138
Hello there anon! I just wanna ask what made you fall in love with her?

No.141

>>139
I initially had absolutely zero interest in her. As you can tell, she's not that cute. She's also very quiet. Mukha pa siyang mataray pag di nakangiti. We're in the same university, and we take the same route home (We live in neighbouring towns).

She spoke to me first, and I found her very fun to talk to.
We had very similar interests (Aside from Korean shit which I will never come to like) and we both had interesting debates over random bullshit like current events. She's generally fun to be with, as long as you keep her talking.

Around mid-July, I started to notice she was cute. This initially had no effect on me whatsoever, but our conversations started feeling a lot more fun. Pagdating ng August nagsimula na akong mailang sa kanya. Things started getting a lot more quiet between us. At the same time, I started becoming more and more obsessed with her.

She eventually started to notice this, and forced a confession out of me. I didn't want to lie. After that, we stopped seeing each other. She didn't want to see me at all. She even takes a different route (a previous one we tried, which is far longer with a fuckton more traffic and lines).

But I intend to clear things out this Friday. A while ago, she started taking my route again- but she still avoided contact.

She still thinks I'm trying to court her. I want to clear things out and make sure she understands I only want to be her friend.

Whether or not we can start over depends entirely on her feelings, but I don't want to just sit here and do nothing.

No.142

Wait till she's 20 yrs old. Girls tend to bloom at 20-25 yrs old

No.143

>>142
And she won't be leaving college until what? 10-20 years later?

How long does one need to study to become a pediatrician?

No.144

>>143
Med school is approx. 7 years

No.145

I had a friend perform reconnaissance. This is more or less what they've talked about.

>Bakit mo siya iniiwasan?

>Ayaw ko sa kanya.
>Pero paano kung gusto lang niya makipagkaibigan?
>Pakikipagkaibigan ba ginagawa niya? Nagtatanong pa nga siya sa mga kaibigan ko kung paano manligaw!
>Sinabi lang niya samin na nagugustuhan ka lang niya, hindi niya sinabi na gusto ka niyang maging gf o ano
>Ayaw ko parin. Linalayuan ko na nga siya para maka-get over na siya. Tinutulungan ko pa nga siya!

No.146

Depending on the circumstances, I might just rely on giving her a written letter.

At this point, I've lost all hope in trying to fix our relationship. I just want to clear up all misunderstandings so I can get on with my life.

No.147

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>>146
Just build your friendship again with her. It will be a long and hard process but it will bear fruit

She's only 16 and you're only 19 don't rush into things. Time is at your side.

No.148


No.149

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Its not always she is not interested its about you. May be you need to think about yourself. Be a complete man. Try to have some good habits and love what you like. You may get some answers. If you really love her chances are that she may respond one day.

And be conscious and don't take any stupid decisions. Continue your life and whenever you get a chance use it with carefully.

No.150

Yeah. In fact, I'm now convinced I've fucked things up beyond repair.
She's told me (through a friend) that she refuses to speak with me ever again.

I won't be sending her a letter anymore. Her opinion of me is completely ruined.

Sorry to disappoint, but I've given up. I've been sleeping for too long. It's about time I woke up.

No.151

>>150
look at post >>136

No.152

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Commercial break

No.153

She invited me over to talk. Here's the summary:

>She doesn't want a relationship at all. Especially not one with me. We already know that.

>My situation isn't special. She's done the same thing to many others.
>She finds me so fucking awkward to be with. Trust me, I've tried to break the ice so many times but she's so quiet herself.
>She doesn't like how I'm too friendly with her friends. I don't know how to take this, honestly.
>I made it clear I just wanted us to be friends.

Though I've learned almost nothing new, I feel this is a good closure. I've managed to clear out our misunderstandings.

I think I'll wait this out, guys. I still like her, but I'm a little tired.

No.154

Damn son, you got friendzoned!

No.155

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>>153
Have you ever thought what will happen if she ever finds this thread?

Play with fire, get burnt.

No.156

>>155
Yeah, I've never considered that.
Not like Maloloschan is popular anyway. I only found this place through /int/

No.157

>>154
Better the friendzone than the "Tangina lumayo ka sakin creep" zone.

No.158

>>156
Yeah Maloloschan isn't still that popular but you can't be sure. Murphy's law dude

No.159

>>158
Can't I request for this thread to be deleted?

Or at least all her pictures taken off?

No.160

>>153

Just keep improving your life. Amp up your game. Be better dressed, eat better, hit the gym. And forget about her.

90% of the time, people comes back into your life when they sense massive change. And then you can decide.

No.161

Thanks, mods. I appreciate it.

No.162

Sayang di ko nakita pics haha ngayon ko lang nakita tong maloloschan

No.163

>>162
Don't worry, di siya ganun kaganda. Plain at cute lang.

No.164

>Alam mo kasi
>Marami pang babae diyan
>Di lang ako, okay?

No.165

>>164
Wew?

No.166

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>>162
Here's an anime version of her.

No.167

>>164
not a good advice to give someone who was just dumped

No.168

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>>167
That was my post, though.
Those were here last words on Friday before she left.

Here's a drawing with glasses.

No.169

>>168
Are you giving up on her?

No.170

>>169

No. I'm just going to lay low.
Tinatansya ko pa kung kailan ako gagawa ulit ng moves.
Yung friendly moves lang.

No.171

Libre mo siya lunch tapos mag sorry ka sa kanya linawin mo ang mga intention mo.

No.172

>>171
She already knows.
We've had this talk last Friday.

Hinihintay ko lang na medyo lumipas yung awkwardness.

No.173

>>172
Hey why don't you try hitting the gym? Be fit and have an unusual skill like juggling or performing magic tricks. It is sure to attract her attention. Girls sometimes like unusual things.

No.174

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The answer to your problems!

No.175

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>>174
Or if you swing both sides, use this lol

No.176

>>175
What's that?

No.178

31 days since she's avoided me.

Time to celebrate with a beer.

No.179

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>>178
No. 3

No.180

>>179
In my case, I've been Iwaszoned.

We've been friends. After my confession, our friendship ceased to exist.

No.181

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No.182

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No.183

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Hey OP, still alive?

No.184

>>183
Yep.

Nothing's happening between us but she still likes to give hints that she hates my ass.

No.185

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No.187

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I know this is game over but I've still not lost hope.

No.188

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No.189

Hangga't wala siyang jowa, may pag asa ka pa pre

No.190

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Di pa ako susuko. May 1.5 yrs pa bago siya mag-graduate. Wala siyang balak magtransfer midterm kasi shs lang naman.

Di ko muna siya hahabulin. Dadaan muna ako ng self-improvement >.>

No.191

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>>190
Retreat muna sa ngayon

No.192

>>190
Ano ba course niya?

No.193

>>192
medtech
Gusto ng MD–PhD

No.194

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No.196

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No.197

It's her birthday tomorrow.

No.198

Greet her lol

No.199

She just said thanks and quickly went her way.

No.200

At least you made her know that you still exist

No.201

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Give her what she wants the most

No.203

Thinking of giving her a friendly gift this Christmas.

Something cheap. Probably a book. I have thousands.

No.205

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Hey OP still alive?

No.207

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Still here.

Merry Christmas, everyone.

No.208

Wow uniqlo is that a gift to her?

No.210

Ye. It's probably the last time we'll see each other this year anyway.

No.211

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I went to Uniqlo this morning to get the gift replaced with pic related.

Gave it to her a while ago.

No.212

Did she liked it?

No.213

I asked one of her friends (the one who insists I give up on her) and she said she liked it.

No.215

still not givin up ey?

No.216

I refuse to.
Once I get into something, I don't back down until it really is too late.

No.220

Happy New Year, boys.

No.221

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This magical emotions..)

No.222


No.223

Updates?

No.224

Too busy with college to deal with her right now, sorry.

No.227

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No.240

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op is dead lol



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